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Many couples enter the world of swinging in search of a threesome with a single woman. When they realize how difficult it is to achieve this goal, the focus often shifts to playing with pairs. Single women in lifestyle are typically referred to as “unicorns” due to their rarity. While having a threesome like this might be difficult, it’s by no means impossible. Couples have several strategies they can employ to end up in bed with this elusive unicorn.

Below is a general overview of each strategy. Follow-up guides are created for each strategy to provide more detailed explanations.

swinger parties

It’s rare to find a single woman at a swingers party, but if you attend enough of them, you’ll run into them from time to time. Some of them are just curious, some are only interested in girls and girls and still others are interested in the coveted threesome. If your only goal is to have a threesome and you are not interested in foursomes and games with other couples, then we do NOT recommend attending swingers parties. If you come across a single woman you are interested in at a swingers party, be present in the moment and engage her. If you’re expecting a threesome, you can’t be shy and expect the girl to make the first, second, or even third move. A single woman practically has a choice about who she sleeps with at a swingers party.

Direct approach (bars, clubs & parties)

If you’re out at night in a vanilla (non-swingers) venue, you can approach women you’re interested in directly. You don’t have to propose the woman right away, but after you’ve started a conversation, built chemistry, and developed a relationship, under certain circumstances it may be possible to end the night threesome, much like one would pursue a one-night stand. Whether you want your female half to approach first or the two of you to approach together is a personal choice, but we do not recommend approaching the male half of the couple alone. Understand that if you follow this strategy you will be rejected repeatedly, but there are girls who are interested in experiencing a threesome and if you connect with the right one, when they are in an open state of mind and you do nothing to intimidate them or scare them away, maybe you’ll get the experience you’re looking for.

female friends

Girlfriends are an excellent resource for finding girls for a threesome. The female half of the couple can chat up their girlfriends and spy on them for a potential threesome. Additionally, letting receptive friends know you’re looking for a threesome opens up the possibility of one occurring. A friend may not be available right now, but after a breakup, they may be more inclined to explore and have fun. The male half of the couple can also share the wish with his girlfriends. If any of these girls are already interested in him, they might be open to a threesome.

Individual recruitment

If either of you find a girl attractive, you can approach her with the intention of having a threesome. When the female half approaches, she can be more direct. However, when it comes to the male half, the best option is to pursue the girl as someone you are interested in casual sex with. After you’ve slept with the girl once, start spying on her for a threesome. If you bring it up first, you risk making her feel like a slut and only interested in her for the threesome. Many girls are more than comfortable engaging in casual sexual relationships and exploring new things with men after they’ve slept with them, but few are quite as receptive to such ideas before they’ve been intimate.

online sources

Sites like Sexxy Mofo, Swing Life Style (SLS), and similar services have real single women looking for threesomes on their sites. However, these real single women are mixed with even more profiles that are “fake” as they are either men pretending to be women or women who want to lure couples and single men into visiting their paid site or to pay for the webcam. Understand that when it comes to messaging these girls, there is a tremendous amount of competition to get their attention. If your profile and message don’t stand out from the crowd, you’re less likely to get a response. While using online services can lead to a threesome, it is very difficult to do so. We recommend using online services to supplement your search, but this should not be your primary strategy.

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