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If you want to know how to get women into bed, it’s all about telling her what she wants to hear. Experienced pick-up artists use “sexual frames”. These are statements about three things—you, her, and “us”—that you tell her, and they set the stage for intimacy. They start off innocently, like any kind of conversation people have when they first meet; and gradually they progress to the point where you talk about sexually intimate things. Then it’s just a matter of taking a tiny step to bring her into the bedroom.

There are 4 great devices that are very good for sexual framing:

stories. Stories are used to tell a girl more about you, share sexual experiences, talk about friends, or give her a metaphor. The point is that they show qualities about you, them, or both of you together.

Compliment. Compliments are a great way to talk about them. Instead of complimenting her on things she IS, you will compliment her on things she WANTS to be complimented on. That’s the key to sexual framing – speaking directly to her wants and desires.

Release bait, hook, reel, rapports. This is a technique where you “fish” for a bit of information about her in order to compliment her. Now that you have insight into how she feels about herself, you can tailor that compliment so that it’s exactly what she wants to hear. If she’s taken aback, you “let go” of her with a non sequitur to throw things off course. Then you follow that up by telling her something similar about yourself that creates a relationship.

double bonds. A double bind is a question that, no matter how you answer it, qualifies it so you can start building your frames. For example, asking her if she’s a party girl; if she says yes, tell her you like going out too; If she says no, tell her you like to stay home and watch DVDs too. Then use that angle to set the rest of your frames.

How to get women to bed is easy once you know how to build frames and gradually escalate them. It’s about making the right statements, shaping her behavior, and using tension and relaxation to get her where you want her—at your home, in your bed, where she’s waiting for you.

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